The Face of Humility

Today a lady came by my office seeking help.

She’d been sent by another church who knew we have a homeless ministry.

It seems she and her 37-year-old son had been evicted from their apartment following some sad events concerning a questionable landlord.

I apologized as I explained we had no funds available and would not be able to help.

In a trembling voice, she said it was ok; she understood.

Tears fell down her face when I offered to pray for her.

As I prayed I remembered we had a few gift cards to a local restaurant and offered them to her, asking if she was hungry.

Her humble reply, “Well, we haven’t eaten in about 3 days, but that’s okay.” Her humble and gentle demeanor made it clear she really was in need.

I gave her the cards and rounded up a few cans of soup from the storage area.

She was so thankful, repeatedly telling me she appreciated it and thanking me for my kindness.

Feeling bad that I couldn’t do more for her, I gave her the number to a local Christian homeless shelter and apologized again that we couldn’t help.

She looked me straight in the eye, smiled, and said,

“That’s okay. God gave me
what I deserved today and it’s plenty.
We’ll be just fine.”

She left my office smiling.

Plenty? A gift certificate and a few cans of soup and she thinks it’s plenty? She and her disabled son are homeless and she thinks that’s plenty? What a testament to her faith!

Later, I sat at my desk and thought about how kind, gentle, and sweet she was. I kept thinking about what a bad spot she was in through no fault of her own. How humbly she’d accepted my small offerings with great appreciation and gratitude.

It dawned on me – I’m the one who should be thanking her.

She reminded me of the importance of a humble attitude of gratitude.

I might be the one sitting in this office assigned with the task of showing God’s love, but this lady showed me what true humility and love for the Savior really looks like.

So, thank you, Ms. Kathy.
It was an honor and a privilege to meet you!

Your witness is truly an inspiration for us all!


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It’s Election Day!

Today is Election Day!

We’re going to the polls to choose a new President.


There has been a lot of drama and trauma surrounding this election.

There’s one important thing to remember no matter who wins today’s vote.

It is this:

The only thing that will change this country for the better is Christian men and Christian women living out their faith according to God’s Word.

It is when we share and model the Gospel with others as we love and minister to them that this world becomes a better place.

I’m not talking about the half-hearted or self-centered activity of so many Christians today.

I’m talking about the real, honest, humble, them first, love them as much as you love yourself actions.

That is what is going to change this country.

It is my prayer that as we go out to vote today we will realize the important changes this country needs begin with us.



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Time Change This Weekend

Don’t forget to set your clocks back
this Saturday nightclock
and enjoy an extra hour of sleep
as Daylight Saving Time ends!

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The Power of Example

The other night while sitting in a fast food restaurant a family came in.

Because they were sitting close to me I couldn’t help but hear their conversation.

The daughter, about 10, mistakenly thought she didn’t get her drink so she went up to the counter to ask for it.


When she returned with her drink, her mother pointed out the girl’s drink had been sitting on the table all along.

Pointing to the new drink in the girl’s hand, she added, “We were dishonest. That’s not our drink.” She went on to explain to the girl what the error was and why it was wrong.

I was impressed.

Most people wouldn’t have given it a second thought and would have either consumed or thrown away the extra drink.

Not this mom.

When this mom noticed the error she pointed it out and went the extra mile to make sure her daughter understood.

She realized the importance of being faithful in the little things.

It made me think about my own life.

Am I faithful in the little things?

Do I take care of the details?

Do I cheat others without meaning to because I’m not paying attention or think it’s no big deal?

To God it is a big deal.

We’re called to be faithful in the small things as well as the big ones.

Jesus said:

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.” ~ Luke 16:10

I doubt the mom realized what an impact her actions made not just on her family but on those around her. I’m guessing she was solely focused on honoring God with her actions and parenting, but I heard and saw her witness loudly and clearly.

There’s a lesson there.

I need to pay more attention to the seemingly minor details because they truly matter, not just to me but to those around me as well.

As I go through the next week I will be paying careful attention to details to make sure I am faithful in the little things.

I hope you will, too.


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A Clarification

I received a lot of feedback for a post I had last week (read it here).

I even lost a few readers.

Apparently, they thought the statement that I would be blogging other women’s struggles in first person meant that my blog and it’s posts would somehow be inauthentic.

They also felt it was as though I wouldn’t be sharing my own struggles or that I somehow thought I didn’t have problems and so I would have to use others’ problems to have something to blog about.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

We all have problems. It is a part of living in this broken, sin-sick world we live in.

And, really, does it matter if I say, “hey, so-and-so was struggling with this” or if I say, “hey, there’s this problem women have”?

I don’t think it does.

So, which ever way I say it, the important thing is that we learn about Christ and draw closer to Him, examining ourselves and seeking to serve Him better daily.

I’m genuinely sorry if what I said sounded dishonest.

It wasn’t meant that way.

I simply wanted to reassure some close friends who read my blog. Two very close friends in particular are regular readers. If I start writing about things I haven’t mentioned to them they will worry. I was trying to avoid that.

I hope as the days and weeks unfold those who were doubtful will continue to read and will see that all I’m trying to do is be obedient to Him and to share what I’m learning, whether it is from my trials or the trials of others.



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We’re Headed to Nashville!

Today we are headed to Nashville to attend the Southern Festival of Books!


I’m spending the weekend meeting authors, listening to lectures on writing, and networking.

Please pray for us as we travel.

Please also pray for me as there is always the possibility of meeting agents, publishers, etc. Pray that if there is a door to be opened for me this weekend I will see it.

Thank you in advance!

Have a great weekend!



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International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church

Every day Christians across the world are killed simply because they follow Christ.

Their homes are burned, their churches destroyed.

Men, women and children are assaulted.

Just because they love Jesus.

In the United States we have freedom of religion and the freedom to worship, pray and serve as we please. What better way is there to express this freedom than to pray for the safety of our brothers and sisters who don’t have that freedom?

Please encourage your church leaders to openly share this important day with their congregation as we join together in one voice to pray for them.

This link will take you to resources you can download to use to share this important information with your congregation members: Open Doors USA


International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church

Sunday, November 6, 2016





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I’m Back !?!

Well, Sorta.

I used to blog a lot but then I had to take time off to help Ringo deal with some things and get his life back on track.

Blogging is a lot more time consuming than you might imagine. One post can take as many as 3-5 hours once you pray, research the Scripture, find a suitable photo, etc.

That’s in addition to the time it takes to work behind the scenes to keep the blog software updated, deal with spam, etc.

Between helping Ringo and sorting through some family things I just didn’t have time for everything, so I let the blog go.

My grandkitty, Bill, and me

My grandkitty, Bill, and me

I also took a year’s sabbatical from any kind of ministry. I didn’t teach, help with youth group or participate in any other formally structured church stuff.

I spent the time focused solely on resting, praying and studying.

Things have calmed down a lot now.

I’m excited to say Ringo is making progress and more himself every day.

I’m also excited to announce that during my rest I began writing another book! I expect it to go to print next spring or summer.

I’ve even begun working on the outline for a third book!

I’d appreciate it if you would help me pray about when/how to publish them as I have several options. I want to make sure I choose the right one.

In the mean time, I’m not sure how frequently I’ll post. I’m more interested in posting things I feel are helpful rather than meeting a quota.

I will also be using the blog to post things I come across as I work with women, sharing lessons they are learning and working through. In an effort to protect their identity and situation I will be posting it in first person.

So please don’t get worried if I post about some serious or off-the-wall stuff. Some of the women I work with will read about things they are not really comfortable talking about.

I say all of this to say, yes, I’m back – sorta.

I appreciate your patience and understanding during time gaps between posts.



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See You At the Pole

This morning is See You At the Pole.

Please take a moment this morning to pray for the thousands of students across the country who are gathering at their high school flag pole to pray for their schools, friends, families, communities and churches.

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Global Week of Student Prayer


This Wednesday thousands of students around the country will gather at the flag pole of their high school at 7 a.m. to pray for their schools, family, friends, communities and churches. Commonly called See You At the Pole, it is an opportunity for the students to gather together as they seek the Lord.

Please spend extra time this week praying for our students and especially for the ones who will be brave enough to publicly show their faith by attending this event.

If you can, please stop where you are on Wednesday morning at 7 a.m. and prayerfully lift up these students, their families and your community.

Psalm 24:3-6:

Who may ascend the mountain of the Lord?
Who may stand in his holy place?

4The one who has clean hands and a pure heart,
who does not trust in an idol
or swear by a false god.

5They will receive blessing from the Lord
and vindication from God their Savior.

6Such is the generation of those who seek him,
who seek your face, God of Jacob.

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